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From Superwoman to Self-Care: How to Overcome Superwoman Syndrome and Live a More Fulfilling Life

I just want to be someone. Well doesnt everyone : Surviving Superwoman Syndrome

Do you feel like you have to do it all and do it well? Do you juggle multiple roles such as mother, wife, worker, homemaker, and more? Do you neglect yourself because you are seeking to please everyone else? If you answered yes to any of these questions, you may have a condition called Superwoman Syndrome.

I just want to be someone. Well doesn’t everyone : Surviving Superwoman Syndrome.

Superwoman Syndrome is a phenomenon that affects many women who try to achieve perfection in all spheres of their life and end up feeling overwhelmed, stressed, and unhappy. It can have negative impacts on your physical, mental, and emotional health, as well as your relationships and quality of life.

In this article, we will explore what Superwoman Syndrome is, what causes it, what are its symptoms and consequences, and how to overcome it. We will also answer some frequently asked questions about this topic. By the end of this article, you will have a better understanding of how to cope with Superwoman Syndrome and live a healthier and happier life.

What is Superwoman Syndrome?

Superwoman Syndrome is a term that was first coined in 1984 by Marjorie Hansen Shaevitz in her book The Superwoman Syndrome. It refers to a condition that occurs when a woman tries to perform multiple roles (such as mother, wife, worker, homemaker, etc.) to perfection without asking for help or taking care of herself.

Women who suffer from Superwoman Syndrome often have high expectations of themselves and others. They feel guilty if they cannot meet their own or others' standards. They tend to put others' needs before their own and sacrifice their well-being for the sake of their roles. They also tend to compare themselves with other women who seem to have it all and feel inadequate or inferior.

The symptoms and consequences of Superwoman Syndrome

Superwoman Syndrome can manifest in various ways depending on the individual and the situation. Some common symptoms include:

  • Bouts of irritability

  • Inability to sleep or excessive sleep

  • Memory issues

  • Muscle tension

  • Anxiety

  • Sweating when not physically active

  • Inability to concentrate

  • General aches and pains

These symptoms can indicate that the woman is under chronic stress and fatigue. Stress is a natural response to challenging or threatening situations, but when it becomes prolonged or excessive, it can have harmful effects on the body and mind.

Some of the consequences of chronic stress and fatigue include:

  • Early aging

  • Heart disease

  • Diabetes

  • Obesity

  • Gastrointestinal problems

  • Migraines

  • Depression

  • Low self-esteem

  • Burnout

  • Relationship issues

The causes and triggers of Superwoman Syndrome

There is no single cause or trigger for Superwoman Syndrome. It can result from a combination of factors such as:

  • Social and cultural expectations: Women are often expected to fulfill multiple roles and responsibilities in society and culture. They may face pressure from family, friends, media, or themselves to be perfect mothers, wives, workers, homemakers, etc.

  • Personality traits: Women who have perfectionist, competitive, or ambitious personalities may be more prone to Superwoman Syndrome. They may have high standards for themselves and others and strive to achieve them at all costs.

  • Life events: Women may experience Superwoman Syndrome during certain life stages or transitions, such as pregnancy, childbirth, menopause, divorce, career change, etc. These events may pose new challenges or demands that require adaptation and adjustment.

  • Lack of support: Women who lack adequate support from their partners, family, friends, or colleagues may feel isolated and overwhelmed by their roles and responsibilities. They may not have anyone to share their burdens or seek help from.

How to overcome Superwoman Syndrome

Superwoman Syndrome is not a permanent or incurable condition. It can be overcome with some changes in attitude, behavior, and lifestyle. Here are some tips on how to cope with Superwoman Syndrome and live a more balanced and fulfilling life:

Ask for help and delegate tasks

You don't have to do everything yourself. You can ask for help from your partner, family, friends, or colleagues when you need it. You can also delegate some tasks to others who can do them better or faster than you. For example, you can hire a babysitter, a cleaner, or a delivery service to take care of some of your household chores. You can also outsource some of your work tasks to a freelancer, a consultant, or a colleague.

Asking for help and delegating tasks is not a sign of weakness or incompetence. It is a sign of wisdom and efficiency. It will help you save time, energy, and stress. It will also allow you to focus on the things that matter most to you and enjoy them more.

Take time out for yourself

You deserve some time for yourself every day. You can schedule some breaks into your calendar and stick to them. You can use this time to do something that relaxes you, such as meditation, yoga, reading, listening to music, or taking a walk. You can also use this time to do something that excites you, such as learning a new skill, pursuing a hobby, or exploring a new place.

Taking time out for yourself will help you recharge your batteries, reduce your stress levels, and improve your mood. It will also help you gain some perspective and clarity on your life and goals.

Learn to say no and set realistic goals

You don't have to say yes to everything that comes your way. You can say no to things that you don't want to do, don't have time to do, or don't align with your values and priorities. Saying no will help you avoid overcommitting yourself and feeling resentful or guilty later.

You can also set realistic goals for yourself and others. You can break down your big goals into smaller and more manageable steps. You can also prioritize your tasks according to their importance and urgency. Setting realistic goals will help you avoid frustration and disappointment and celebrate your achievements.

Practice self-care and stress management

You can take care of yourself by eating well, sleeping well, exercising regularly, and staying hydrated. These habits will help you maintain your physical health and well-being. They will also boost your immune system, energy levels, and mood.

You can also practice some stress management techniques such as deep breathing, progressive muscle relaxation, positive affirmations, or journaling. These techniques will help you calm your mind and body and cope with stressful situations more effectively.


Superwoman Syndrome is a condition that affects many women who try to do it all and do it well without taking care of themselves. It can cause stress, fatigue, unhappiness, and various health problems.

To overcome Superwoman Syndrome, you need to change your mindset and behavior. You need to ask for help and delegate tasks when you need it. You need to take time out for yourself every day. You need to learn to say no and set realistic goals. You need to practice self-care and stress management.

By following these tips, you will be able to cope with Superwoman Syndrome and live a more balanced and fulfilling life. You will be able to enjoy your roles and responsibilities without sacrificing your health and happiness.


  • What is the difference between Superwoman Syndrome and burnout?

  • Burnout is a state of physical, mental, and emotional exhaustion caused by prolonged or excessive stress. Superwoman Syndrome is one of the possible causes of burnout in women who try to do it all without taking care of themselves.

  • How common is Superwoman Syndrome?

  • There is no exact data on how common Superwoman Syndrome is, but it is estimated that it affects many women in modern society who face multiple demands and expectations from themselves and others.

  • Is Superwoman Syndrome a mental disorder?

  • No, Superwoman Syndrome is not a mental disorder. It is a phenomenon that describes a certain pattern of behavior and attitude that can lead to stress and unhappiness. However, Superwoman Syndrome can contribute to or worsen some mental disorders such as anxiety, depression, or eating disorders.

  • Can men have Superwoman Syndrome?

  • Yes, men can also have Superwoman Syndrome, although it may be less common or less recognized. Men who try to balance multiple roles such as father, husband, worker, provider, etc. and neglect their own needs and feelings may also suffer from Superwoman Syndrome.

  • How can I help someone who has Superwoman Syndrome?

  • If you know someone who has Superwoman Syndrome, you can help them by:

  • Showing them empathy and understanding

  • Encouraging them to seek help and support when they need it

  • Offering to help them with some of their tasks or responsibilities

  • Reminding them of their strengths and achievements

  • Helping them to relax and have fun



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